When faced with a tough decision, what are the questions you ask yourself? Do you play out the potential scenarios? Do you weigh the potential benefits against the potential detriments? Among all the questions, do you ever actually ask yourself, "Will this make me happier?"
When faced with a tough decision, we all have different thought processes that come into play. Robert Biswas-Deiner says, "We make a lot of our decisions based on predictive future happiness." While I don't think this is necessarily new information for me, I know it is the first time it has been presented to me so clearly.
When faced with a tough decision, I try to take my time, consider all the factors and options, gather the opinions of others, then choose. Now, I am going to ask myself one more question, "Am I giving my future happiness too much emphasis as I decide?"
It is hard to imagine purposely making a decision that does not eventually make me happier. I'd like to think that I won't make a decision out of fear that the choice will actually lead to less happiness. Sure, there will be times when I must muddle through the thunderstorms in order to find the end of the rainbow, but isn't it worth it?
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